The Kink Lab

Domination and submission is an energy exchange, a power exchange, a dance where power is the rhythm. In many partner dances, like tango or salsa, one partner surrenders, while the other leads. And as with any dance, ease and grace comes from learning the foundations, the structure and the styles. In this class, you will learn the basic guiding principles within BDSM, the skills and the attitude behind the play. From these building blocks, you will be able to continue your exploration, expanding your knowledge at your own pace and find your unique style.

*Practical information*
🎟 Price: €49,- per person
📅 Date: Saturday 21 October
🕒 Time: 14:00 - 18:00 hrs
🏢 Location: Meneer de Wit, Amsterdam

*What to Expect*
The Kink Lab is more than a workshop; it's a journey into the art of power exchange, where you'll explore the foundations, skills, and attitudes behind BDSM play. Whether you're a seasoned couple or an individual looking to pair up and explore, this experience is designed for all. Couples or singles are welcome. Single participants will be paired up and take turns in dominating and surrendering. Switching roles is encouraged for all participants regardless of their "natural" preference. There's much to learn from doing the opposite of what you normally do.

*Topics Covered*
- Establishing safety parameters
- Mastering the art of negotiation and setting boundaries
- Exploring dom and sub archetypes and role plays
- Unveiling fetishes and engaging in kinky games
- Enhancing body awareness and presence
- Learning basic spanking and impact play techniques
- Understanding the importance of aftercare

*What to Bring*
- A bottle of water
- Any kinky toys you have questions about
- Your curiosity and questions about BDSM & fetish
- Comfortable and sensual attire
- Swimwear or sexy underpants for the spanking lesson*

(*Nudity is not permitted during this introductory class, but stripping down to underpants is encouraged for better skin contact. Swimwear is an alternative option.)

*Core Benefits*
- Explore a wide range of play, from playful kink to 24-7 relationships.
- Understand the anatomy of a kink scene and how to establish a fetish container.
- Learn the art of negotiation with the HYMNA Lists for safe play.
- Play with sensations and intensity, reframing your perspective on "pain."
- Gain insights into kinky toys and their safe use.
- Get a toy shopping guide, including tips on quality and price.

*About the Facilitator*
For over 20 years, Ms. Mercury has traveled the world sharing her dominant skills in private sessions and hosting fetish parties, workshops and demonstrations at events such as Sexpo (Australia), Kinkferansen (Norway) & Nyt Festivalen (Norway). She was a consultant for films such as “My Mistress” (2014) and was Executive Producer for the digital remastering of “Preaching to the Perverted” (1997/2013). She has been a guest at TV shows, and has given interviews in print and digital media and live performances sharing her expertise in BDSM and Tantric sexuality. In 2015, Ms Mercury completed her Masters research in the Neuroscience of S&M at the University of Oslo.

"Through all these years in the professional kink scene, my deepest inspiration is seeing my clients and students blossom from their kink exploration. This comes in many forms. In the strict mistress coach approach, I've guided clients to quit smoking, lose weight and find more inspiring careers. As the kink educator, it brings me such joy learning how couples exploring kink, get to communicate about taboo issues, conquer challenges together, and foster deeper connection. " Kalyss Mercury

*And more*
🍓 Your ticket includes water, tea, sodas and snacks during the workshop.

🌈 All forms are welcome at our workshop: singles, couples, friends, trios, and individuals of all genders and sexual orientations. We embrace diversity and provide an inclusive space where everyone can feel comfortable, respected, and celebrated.