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Join us for a special Slow Sex Sunday, a 5-hour journey designed for couples or practice partners, to reconnect after the festive season.
A playful yet deeply nourishing reset for body, heart, and intimacy, we call it, lovingly, the Christmas Recovery Special.
✨ 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗜𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗜𝗦 𝗦𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗜𝗔𝗟 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧?
After days of family dinners, reunions, and full social calendars, it’s easy to lose touch with yourself and each other.
Old family patterns can surface, your inner child, the pleaser, the rebel, and you might even witness your partner’s inner dynamics play out within their own family field.
This Slow Sex Couples Edition offers the perfect moment to come back to your centre, re-attune as lovers, and anchor back into intimacy.
Through Slow Sex practices, Voice Dialogue work (exploring the inner parts that show up in intimacy), and the lens of Jaya’s Erotic Blueprints®, you’ll rediscover how you and your partner are uniquely wired, emotionally and erotically.
🕊 𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗖𝗔𝗡 𝗘𝗫𝗣𝗘𝗖𝗧
Within a safe, trauma-informed space guided by Anneke van Bokhoven, we’ll explore:
- The inner parts that surface in love, intimacy, and family dynamics
(the Pleaser, the Controller, the Wild One, the Healer, the Romantic, the Judge…)
- How to communicate and relate from those parts consciously
- Practices to regulate the nervous system and open the heart
- Slow Sex principles: presence, breath, boundaries, surrender
- Erotic Blueprints® explorations: how your body loves to give and receive pleasure
Every exercise is an invitation, clothed, safe, and fully guided.
You’ll stay with your own partner throughout, cultivating depth, trust, and erotic aliveness together.
💫 𝗪𝗛𝗬 𝗝𝗢𝗜𝗡?
Because after the holidays…
you deserve a space to exhale.
To laugh again, to touch, to be met beyond words.
To remember why you chose each other.
To rediscover the art of slow, conscious, playful love.
💞 𝗦𝗧𝗥𝗨𝗖𝗧𝗨𝗥𝗘 𝗢𝗙 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗗𝗔𝗬
🌿 Arrival & Grounding (14:00)
Land in your body and with your partner through breath and touch.
🔥 The Inner Parts Practice
Explore the voices within, the Pleaser, the Rebel, the Judge, the Lover, and how they dance together in your relationship.
🌹 Slow Sex Partner Practices
Guided duo exercises to re-awaken intimacy, presence, and erotic flow.
Each moment is an invitation, never an obligation.
💋 Erotic Blueprints Explorations
Discover how your unique erotic wiring interacts, energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, shapeshifter, and what that opens between you.
☕ Integration & Closing (19:00)
A grounding circle, tea, and sharing.
🦋 𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗔𝗟 𝗜𝗡𝗙𝗢
- Date: Sunday 11 January
- Time: 14:00 – 19:00
- Location: Kokopelli, Amsterdam
- For: Couples or practice partners (you’ll stay with one partner throughout)
- Language: English (with gentle Dutch translation if needed)
- Facilitator: Anneke van Bokhoven intimacy coach, body-oriented therapist, Slow Sex facilitator
- Website: www.annekevanbokhoven.nl
💌 𝗥𝗘𝗠𝗜𝗡𝗗𝗘𝗥
This is a clothed, sex-positive, trauma-informed container.
No explicit sexual activity focus is on awareness, energy, breath, and connection.
You’re invited to bring a soft cloth, massage oil, and something that feels erotically you (a scent, a scarf, a symbol).
✨ 𝗖𝗢𝗠𝗘 𝗔𝗦 𝗬𝗢𝗨 𝗔𝗥𝗘
Tender, tired, playful, fiery, all of you is welcome.
Let’s reset together after the holidays and begin the new year connected, relaxed, and re-awakened.
𝘐𝘔𝘗𝘖𝘙𝘛𝘈𝘕𝘛: 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰’𝘷𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘙𝘦𝘨𝘶𝘭𝘢𝘳 𝘚𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘚𝘦𝘹 𝘗𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺.
✨ 𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗦𝗘𝗫 𝗠𝗢𝗩𝗘𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧
The Slow Sex Movement is more than a practice, for us, it’s a lifestyle, an art form, and even a form of activism that deeply connects us to ourselves, each other and nature, thus ending separation. For more info, visit:
https://slowsex.me/
More about your facilitator Anneke:
https://slowsex.me/anneke/
You will receive more information about microdosing in the welcome email you receive after booking. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘱𝘥𝘧 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦-𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘏𝘪𝘱𝘴𝘺!
✨ 𝗙𝗔𝗤:
- 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙚𝙙? — Yes! Every Slow Sex facilitator is personally trained by Katjalisa, co-founder of the Slow Sex movement, and participates in a continuous mentorship program. This program focuses on trauma-information, mirroring blind spots, working with disowned parts, and holding each other accountable to serve the collective with integrity and care. To learn more about our values and how we take care, please read about our community care:
https://slowsex.me/community-care/
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣? — YES, absolutely!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙣𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙙? — Unless stated differently, we have a ‘underwear on’ policy during all events. There won't be any genital penetration happening at any point of the evening.
- 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙎𝙚𝙭 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙫𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠? — Slow Sex is a healing space. Even though our intention is not to actively dive into trauma work, some exercises might trigger past traumatic experiences. We ask you to get in touch with our team beforehand if you are aware of sexual traumas.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚? — You can totally come alone. If you come as a couple please discuss beforehand if you are open to share experiences with others and clarify the boundaries within your relationship.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧? — Yes.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧? Potentially, we invite you to explore beyond your gender preference and meet each other as beings to connect from heart to heart and go beyond initial preferences.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙖𝙙 𝙤𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙? — Yes, please come as you are—grumpy, unsocial, totally unsexy, the Slow Sex Practice can help you to reconnect to yourself and shift your energy.
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙙𝙚? — No, you’re welcome to wear sexy clothes or show up in your pajamas. Most importantly, you should feel comfortable.
- 𝙎𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙄 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚? — Showering beforehand is appreciated. If you sweat a lot, bring a small towel. Please, avoid strong perfumes or deodorants.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙎𝙚𝙭? — The Slow Sex Practice isn’t a ‘pick up’ place.
It's about connecting with an open heart without specific intentions or goals. However, if you had a special moment with someone and want to meet up or just express gratitude—go ahead!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙥𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙧 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤𝙨 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙣? — No, the Slow Sex Practice is a phone-and picture-free space.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚 (𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚) 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚? — Yes, you'll receive a welcome email with event details after your registration from Hipsy with a pdf included, and a follow-up email with care instructions afterward. Your email address will be public in the aftercare email, unless you wish to to stay incognito. Please tell us.
- 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙟𝙤𝙞𝙣, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙪𝙩? — Yes, we’re open to see how we can support each other.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙧? — No, sorry, latecomers cannot join unless they have arranged it with the facilitator in advance and the group is informed.
- 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙪𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜? — All our events are hosted in English, and fluent English is a prerequisite for participation.
✨ 𝗜𝗠𝗣𝗢𝗥𝗧𝗔𝗡𝗧!
Registration closes 2 hours before. Want to join last-minute? Check in with in Anneke +31 6 2340 2196
𝙒𝙚’𝙧𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜. 💕
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