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❓Ever felt there is wisdom in your body but you just don’t know how to make it work for you?
❓Ever felt that your body’s capable of far more pleasure than you have yet been able to experience?
❓Are you tired of sex+ and conscious sexuality events that feel disconnected and shallow?
❓Longing for something new, exciting, and with depth?
If this resonates—even a little—then this event is for you.
Join us and learn how to use your body’s intelligence and your sexual energy for healing and extraordinary pleasure.
🖤 What’s It All About?
Energy Play: The Impulse of Pleasure is a one-of-a-kind workshop and temple for those ready to break out of the ordinary and explore the extraordinary.
Most temple spaces focus only on pleasure. Most tantric workshops focus on doing the work to heal. Energy Play: The Impulse of Pleasure is a unique opportunity to dive deeply into positive transformation, real, genuine connection, and full-body pleasure!
Here, you will learn how to use your body to unlock the power of your intuition and connect to the extraordinary healing and wisdom of the ‘field’.
Here, you will learn how to listen to your body’s true yes’s and true no’s and let its incredible intelligence guide you toward the meaning, connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve.
Here, you will be shown tantric methods to feel your ‘energy body,’ circulate sexual energy, and basic tantric massage techniques—which, should you choose, you can practice in a well-held, free-flowing temple space. All the tantric techniques you will be shown can be practiced on your own or with a partner and are suitable for all levels of intimacy.
Best of all, this event is beautifully held and expertly facilitated. Welcome to the Wisdom of the Body.
🖤 Who is This For?
This event has been crafted with a unique format that will:
- Give those who are experienced in sex+ positive and tantric spaces the freedom and depth they long for, offering an innovative and exciting approach to the temple space.
- Provide those new to sex+ positive and tantric spaces the tools to both know their boundaries and stay within them, offering a great space to finally explore their curiosity.
We are LGBTQIA+ inclusive and encourage people from diverse communities to attend. Whatever your gender and/or sexual orientation, the techniques and spaces shared can be potent, pleasurable and transformative.
🖤 Embodied Consent
The society we live in often leaves our bodies numb.
Numb to our bodies’ vast intelligence, we can struggle to know when something really is a yes and when it is a no. This forces us to rely only on our minds and can mean we end up in situations that are unhealthy or harmful, or that we miss opportunities that could positively transform us.
In this workshop, we will learn powerful methods:
- That enable us to feel our bodies’ ‘yes’ and ‘no’.
- That empower us to only engage in situations that are full-bodied yes’s.
This will enable the safety and relaxation in the body that allows energy to flow, real connections to be made, meaning and healing to unfold, and waves of full-bodied pleasure to be felt.
🖤 Our Body’s Intelligence
Our individualistic societies are mind-focused and dismiss the vast intelligence in the ‘field’. The ‘field’ does exist, physicists accept that the basic building block of the universe is information. Our bodies are able to ‘read’ this information and guide us wisely toward what is important: whether that’s making healthy choices when it comes to choosing romantic and sexual partners, making important decisions in relation to work, or healing the individual and collective wounds that hold us back from fully living our potential.
In this workshop, we will learn powerful methods that enable us to ‘attune’ our bodies to information in the field so that we can:
• Receive ‘downloads’ and embodied experiences that enable profound insights to arise and healing to take place.
• Be moved toward meaningful, heart-felt, ‘alive,’ and exciting connections with others.
🖤 Tantric Techniques and Temple Space
Tension, repressed emotions, and trauma create ‘blocks’ in our bodies, preventing sexual energy from flowing around the whole body. This stops us from experiencing the incredible multi-orgasmic potential of the body. Most of us are capable of experiencing far more pleasure than we do. Tantric techniques offer powerful tools to move us toward our pleasure potential.
In this workshop, we will demonstrate some basic tantric techniques that you can—if you choose—practice in the temple space:
- A technique that can empower you to feel your own and others’ ‘energy bodies’.
- A technique that can empower you to experience a full-body energetic orgasm. This method can be used when pleasuring yourself or during lovemaking.
- We will demonstrate basic sensual and tantric massage techniques suitable for all levels of intimacy.
These methods take practice, and you will be able—should you choose to practice them during a free-flow Temple, where nothing needs to happen, and everything can happen.
We will take an innovative approach to the temple space. It will be a well-held container that:
- meets the needs of those wanting to practice energy play, impulse play, tantric lovemaking, and tantric massage.
- meets the needs of those new to such spaces and supports them in staying within their boundaries.
- meets the needs of those experienced in such spaces who want the freedom to explore how they are moved to explore.
🖤 Your Facilitators
//Wave Davis
Wave is a tantric and shamanic practitioner. They have undertaken more than 8 years of extensive tantric training. Their teachers have included Alan Lowen (Art Of Being) and Pema (Wild Tantra). They have spent months in Peru learning from Maestro Heberto Garcia in the Loreto region of the Amazon rainforest. They are deeply connected with several plant medicines including Mappacho and Ayhuasca and, as a channel, can utilise the voice to transmit healing vibrations. Wave has years of experience in bodywork and healing modalities from non-Western and Western traditions such as De-armouring (Gaia Method), Zen Buddhism (Thich Nhat Hanh), CBT, EMDR, and NVC. They take an integrated approach to releasing tension, emotion and trauma which are stored in the body to increase the body's capacity for pleasure and enable expanded states of consciousness for healing and manifestation. Wave works with individuals and couples as well as running workshops and retreats. They are also the founder of Organising from Elsewhere which aims to listen in radically new ways to people whose ways of knowing and being together are fundamentally different from ours.
"For those who missed the golden OSHO/BHAGWAN years in Poona, (because they were not even born...) here is the chance to experience the depth and fun we experienced. Be kind to yourself, go to the next retreat. I'm sure you love it" - Morari
"Absolutely loved Wave’s devotion, passion and teachings. Wave feels solid and safe. A full day with lots of deep insights and release. Thank you Wave!" - Lisa Bruin
"Wave is an amazing facilitator. Intuitive, insightful. He will guide you through transformative processes." - Participant Energy Orgasms 101
Insta: @wavedavis
Web: wavedavis.me
💜 About Denise Kooij 💜
Denise is an intimacy coach and facilitator passionate about helping men reconnect with their authentic selves—and have some fun while doing it. With her warm presence and deep insight, Denise creates safe, dynamic spaces where men can explore vulnerability, set boundaries, and rediscover their desires.
Using a mix of somatic practices, tantric exercises, and transformational rituals, she empowers men to break free from societal conditioning and embrace meaningful, magnetic connections—with themselves and others. Whether it’s guiding someone to drop the “nice guy” act or helping them step fully into their power, Denise brings a grounded and playful energy to her work, making transformation both impactful and accessible.
For Denise, true intimacy starts with self-awareness and an unapologetic connection to one’s body, emotions, and desires—and she’s here to help men step into the role of a Liberated Lover and live it fully.
"Working with Denise has gained me so much insight in parts of me I had put away and to understand what it is to become a complete man.
Denise provides safety and support to work on deep levels. The whole journey has been a gift and I am very grateful."
"Denise creates a safe, playful space that deepens connection and invites transformation. Her guidance is professional, open, and full of warmth. Highly recommended!"
Insta: denise_kooij
Web: denisekooij.com
👗 What to wear:
Workshop: something loose and comfortable
Temple Space: whatever makes you feel happy, open, relaxed and a little sexy
🛌 Optional overnight stay:
There is the option to stay overnight at our beautiful venue (more information below). If you wish to do so, please let us know before hand if possible and bring €45 in cash which you should give directly to the owner Arjan.
🥗 Food:
Dinner: please bring a potluck dinner with enough to share
Snacks: to keep you going
Optional: For those staying over overnight, please bring your own breakfast
📆 Date and Time:
Saturday 25th January. Doors: 13.00. Starting promptly: 13.30. Closing: 00.00
📍Location:
A truly stunning venue, a beautiful farmhouse in Amsterdam, easily accessible both by public transport and by car.
The exact address and further practical information will be sent in the confirmation email
IMPORTANT: Before you attend the event, you are required to fill in the short but important pre-event questionnaire that will be sent to you shortly. This is to make sure we have the information we need about participants to create wise well held container. If you do not fill in the form beforehand, you will be unable to attend and no refund will be issued.
