Poly Stories | Jealousy Talks

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ENM Storytelling Evenings | Treehouse NDSM (Amsterdam North)

THEME OF THIS EVENING: JEALOUSY TALKS

Jealousy. We’ve all felt it, whether as children with no access to the right crayon, watching our lover sliding across the room after batted eyelashes, or deep into our polyamourous seniority, when we were least expecting it. In the ENM community, where freedom, compersion and sharing are front and center, we might hide from our jealousy because it makes us question our legitimacy as a poly person. Doesn’t that erase the conversation?

Let’s stop jealousy shaming and dive within. Jealousy shakes you to the core and wakes you up to the things you’ll want to work through, or desire to ask from another. It can be beautiful, or hurtful, depending on what you do with it. Like every feeling, it is valid. What is the line between claiming responsibility for our feelings, and finding a way all partners can feel free and safe at the same time?

This evening, different people will share their personal stories. Would you like to share a story yourself? Send a message to suzanne@suzanneallegonda.nl

THIS IS FOR YOU WHEN
This evening is for anyone—whether you’re just starting out or already experienced—in non-monogamy / open relationships / polyamory.

PRACTICAL INFO
Wednesday Okt 1, 2025
• 19:00 doors open, program 19:30 – 21:30
• Location: Treehouse NDSM, Amsterdam North
• Max. 30 participants
• Language: English

POLY STORIES
Poly Stories invites you in the exploration of the wondrous world of non-monogamy through personal storytelling—together navigating the edges and unpacking (moral) dilemmas.
This evening is for everyone with a curiousity in the free shapes of love.

• Expect inspiring stories with Q&A
• The sharing of experiences and inspiration
• Love's wisdom to take home

Each evening revolves around a central theme. We co-create the night together. There is space to talk to others, ask questions and bring in your own experiences.

WANT TO SHARE A STORY YOURSELF?
Would you like to share a story this evening or one of the upcoming ones?
Send an email to suzanne@suzanneallegonda.nl

ABOUT THE ORGANIZER
Suzanne Allegonda is a relationship therapist specialized in non-monogamy. She has always been fascinated by human thinking and behavior. In her private practice she focuses on working with individuals and couples in ENM relationships. Over the past years, she has organized various lectures and workshops where philosophy, self-reflection and love and intimacy meet.