Pillars of Presence - The Intimacy Shift for Men

Dear Men,

Step into your power. Transform how you connect—with women, men, and yourself.
This workshop is your gateway to embodying presence, confidence, and authentic intimacy. Through deep connection practices, transformational rituals, and powerful self-awareness tools, you’ll discover what it means to stand as a pillar of presence—grounded, open, and magnetic.

It’s time to shift from hesitation to clarity, from isolation to connection, and from seeking validation to embodying your worth.
Join us for this life-changing experience.

Do you find yourself struggling to connect deeply with women? Feeling awkward, disconnected, or stuck in patterns of pleasing, insecurity, anger and overthinking?
This isn’t just a workshop—it’s a transformation. An opportunity to leave behind confusion, self-doubt, and isolation, and step into the kind of confidence, clarity, and connection that changes how you show up in the world.
In this workshop, you won’t just learn—you’ll feel. You’ll shed layers of conditioning and shame, rediscover your true self, and experience what it means to stand tall as a pillar of light, grounded in your own power and authenticity.

❤️‍🔥 Why Join? ❤️‍🔥
You will leave this workshop feeling:

🌟 Empowered and Grounded: Free from societal expectations, with a newfound clarity about who they are and what they truly want.
🌟 Embodied and Present: More connected to their bodies, boundaries, and desires, with tools to navigate intimacy confidently.
🌟 Liberated from Shame and Fear: Aware of how past wounds, societal conditioning, and fears have shaped them—and ready to move beyond them.
🌟 Part of a Brotherhood: Supported by others, with a deep sense of connection, empathy, and belonging.

This is your chance to shift from seeking external validation to cultivating inner alignment—so you can connect with women, men, and yourself with ease and authenticity.

💥 What You’ll Experience 💥
This powerful 4-hour journey combines experiential practices, deep reflection, and sacred rituals to guide you toward clarity and connection:

♥️ Connecting with self and others
Take part in embodiment exercises which create safety, intimacy, and trust among the group.

♥️ Darkness Work
Engage with your shadows —exploring vulnerability, empathy, and the difference between outward projection and inner alignment.

♥️ Sharing Circle
Reflect on your experiences, speak your truth and allow the group ‘field’ to support you in fundamental shifts.

♥️ Forgiveness and Welcoming Ritual
Release shame and unmet needs in a transformative ritual, welcoming the parts of yourself you’ve hidden or rejected.


⚡ What You’ll Take Away ⚡
♥️ Inner Peace and Clarity: A deeper understanding of yourself and your behaviors, and how to connect from a place of authenticity.

♥️ Confidence and Presence: The ability to embody your desires and boundaries with ease.
A New Sense of Connection: Realize that you are not alone—feel supported by a group of men who share your journey.

♥️ An Energetic Shift: Shift from an external, "horizontal" focus to a vertical alignment of energy, allowing you to meet your own needs and connect with others deeply.

💌 This is your invitation 💌
Step into a space where you can shed societal expectations, release old stories, and embrace your true self. Leave as someone who knows their power, owns their desires, and creates meaningful, authentic connections.

*Spaces are limited to maintain an intimate container. Secure your spot now and start your transformation.


💜 About Denise Kooij 💜
Denise is an intimacy coach and facilitator passionate about helping men reconnect with their authentic selves—and have some fun while doing it. With her warm presence and deep insight, Denise creates safe, dynamic spaces where men can explore vulnerability, set boundaries, and rediscover their desires.

Using a mix of somatic practices, tantric exercises, and transformational rituals, she empowers men to break free from societal conditioning and embrace meaningful, magnetic connections—with themselves and others. Whether it’s guiding someone to drop the “nice guy” act or helping them step fully into their power, Denise brings a grounded and playful energy to her work, making transformation both impactful and accessible.

For Denise, true intimacy starts with self-awareness and an unapologetic connection to one’s body, emotions, and desires—and she’s here to help men step into the role of a Liberated Lover and live it fully.

https://www.denisekooij.com/
https://www.instagram.com/denise_kooij/

💚 About Wave Davis 💚
Wave Davis is an activist, writer, and tantric-shamanic facilitator dedicated to helping men break free from limiting patterns and step into deeper connection with themselves and others. With over eight years of tantric training and extensive experience in healing modalities, Wave specializes in releasing trauma from the body and awakening life energy to support embodiment, presence, and authentic intimacy.

Wave’s facilitation blends bodywork, sacred rituals, and transformational practices to help men explore vulnerability, dissolve shame, and reclaim their innate power. Through his work, men are guided to shift from external striving to inner alignment, discovering what it means to stand as grounded pillars of presence in their relationships and lives.

Deeply committed to creating spaces of growth and liberation, Wave weaves wisdom from tantric traditions, indigenous teachings, and modern approaches to healing, offering a unique journey of empowerment and connection for all who step into his workshops.

https://www.paradigmplay.org/
https://www.instagram.com/wavedavis/