S’expositive Play-Space

Conscious S’expositive Play-Space!
→ Only open to those who have already been to one of our events. If you think you could be an exception to this, send us a DM or email us at connect@playpartners.nl
→ We play consciously. No alcohol or other drugs allowed.

Doors open at 18:30. Doors close at 19:00.
At 19:00 we’ll start with an opening circle where we connect with each other and explain the play rules. Then we have the evening to play, practice, watch, and experiment. We’ll close together with a closing circle at 21:30.
Please come before 18:45, so we can actually keep our promise and start at 19:00. This is important to create a safe container together.

Call us dreamers, but we believe and strive for a s’expositive world, where intimacy and s*ex are considered to be a healthy and joyous part of life.
These Conscious S’expositive Play-Spaces are here to practice living in that kind of world. We offer a space where we can shed the s’exnegative culture, free ourselves from shame and unwanted beliefs, and grow together. Or just practice whatever you learned in one of our workshops or wherever ;)
At the S’expositive Play-Space we create space for a s’ex positive free flow; time and space to go freestyle. Nudity and s’exuality is possible here, your chill clothes on and going for that wholesome cuddle and nap just as welcome :) You can enjoy being with others in as many ways as you want (consent-based).

IMPORTANT: our workshops are all consent based. You only have to do things you feel a YES for (or not, if that’s your spiritual practice at this moment), and NEVER ever ever will we force you into anything you don’t want.
We have a team of spaceholders, in case you need some emotional support.

With the Conscious S’expositive Play-Space we offer a place to:
→ Practice with and explore all forms and expressions of intimacy and s*exuality
→ Offer people a s’expositive tribe/family and a way to connect to like-minded people
→ Normalize s’expositive spaces
→ Help people overcome shame about parts of their s’exuality. Be more open and free.

THIS IS FOR YOU WHEN YOU...
→ have already been to one of our events.
→ are older than 18
→ are single or in (a) relationship(s) (read the Partner agreements section below)
→ want to explore intimacy & s*xuality and have fun, or want to challenge yourself in a safer space
→ have an open mind (or working on it) towards others and yourself regarding intimacy & s*xuality
→ take responsibility for your own wellbeing. This means that you can always voice your boundaries. We will never force you to do anything.
→ might feel a little scared, or not. It’s all good, there will be sweet and loving people

Whether you want to come alone or with a partner, whether this is your first time at a s*expositive space or have been to a hundred play parties/temple spaces/other s*expositive spaces before, whether you like to take it super slow or dive right in, this space is for you. All genders, all s*xual orientations, you are welcome.

THIS IS NOT FOR YOU WHEN YOU...
→ haven’t already been to one of our events.
→ do not want to be in a space where intimacy and nudity is allowed.
→ are not respectful towards others, cross boundaries or display other behaviour that jeopardizes the safety of the group.
→ come to “hunt”. Leave any neediness/greediness at home. Instead, allow whatever wants to unfold arise, without expectations.
We ask participants to keep to the guidelines that are discussed at the beginning of the Play-Space. When you are not respectful, cross boundaries or display other behaviour that jeopardise the safety of the group we can ask you to leave the space.

WHAT TO EXPECT
Expect time and space to do anything you want as long as it’s consent based and not hurting the space, together with other lovely like minded spirits. So yes, nudity and s’exuality is an option here. Witnessing, learning, drinking tea, reading that book, asking us questions, sleeping… all valid options too. You don’t have to do anything you don’t want. If you want to sit & watch and be a spectator all throughout, we’ll be cheering on the sidelines! If you want to mingle and let out your slutty side, we’ll be cheering just as hard! (Note that we’re using the word “slut” in the most positive way one can use a word. If you’re not sure why, we highly recommend the awesome classic “The Ethical Slut” ).

This is a s’expositive space. What does “s’expositive” mean for us?
To us it means a healthy, joyful and non-judgmental way of looking at and expressing s'exuality.
It means having positive attitudes about s'ex and feeling comfortable with one’s own s'exual identity and with the s'exual behaviors of others.
We value consent and communication. We are fan of education that allows people to make informed choices about their bodies, relationships, s'exual activities and pleasure.

We don’t maintain a gender balance. Every body offers something to explore with, no matter the gender, or orientation, or *insert whatever here*.

The Conscious S’expositive Play-Spaces are only open to those who have already been to one of our events, to ensure participants are familiar with our community culture.


WHAT TO BRING
→ Towel; the most useful thing a s’ex-positive human being can have. Preferably a large one. You can be naked on it, dry yourself off with it, maybe even cuddle with it. (The Hitchhiker's Guide To The Galaxy was right all along;)
→ Clothes that make you feel comfortable and/or s’exy. S*xy outfit meaning: what do you feel s*xy in? Whether that’s your pyjamas, your alter ego outfit or just a string and socks. And more options of clothes more better? Watch our video What to wear to a Play Party here: https://youtu.be/9rY9LaIM2_M
→ Water bottle.
→ We recommend some easy snacks for in between.
→ Nesting if you like (things that make you feel comfortable, like a blanket)
→ Whatever serves you in your s’exual expression. Anything from toys to your favorite brand of condoms. (Standard latex condoms, latex gloves and silicone lube will be provided by us)
Tip: Be mindful of your body odour: heavy perfume can be overwhelming for others. Natural, clean scents are the best!

PARTNER AGREEMENTS
If you come with a partner, come in sync. Discuss whether you’ll do the exercises with others, or only with the two of you. Discuss this for the play party as well.
Be sure to watch our video on Partner Agreements here: https://youtu.be/t2KEXYbtZkY
We strongly recommend discussing boundaries and fears beforehand. Be specific when you talk about it: what specific actions that you or the other might do could be hard for you to experience? Find an agreement that you both feel good about. Be gentle with each other
THE S’EXPOSITIVE CULTURE WE STRIVE FOR
→ To first and foremost take self-care and care of others at heart, by respecting our own boundaries and those of others, as well as communicate our desires and encourage others to communicate theirs.
→ To enjoy and experiment consciously, without any intoxication.
→ To consider s'ex to be a healthy and joyous part of life that should be enjoyed. S'ex can be discussed without shame or awkwardness and is not a taboo subject.
→ To be open to learning more about s'ex and s'exual activity. Trying to understand our own body, our partners’ bodies, and all of the physical, emotional, and psychological aspects involved with intimacy. Questions about s'ex and intimacy are welcomed.
→ To recognize the importance of safer s'ex for both ourselves and our partners and respect the safer s'ex guidelines. Safer s'ex can include discussing s'exual histories, using condoms, and being tested for s'exually-transmitted infections (STIs). It can also include emotional and psychological safety, such as supporting a partner when (re)experiencing s'exual challenges or trauma.
→ To accept others’ s'exual practices, as long as the participants consent and feel safe, without moral judgment. This means accepting s'exual behaviors and fantasies that might be different from our own. This also means accepting others’ s'exual orientations, lifestyles and gender expressions without judgment.
→ To communicate in an open, compassionate and non-violent way.

PLAY RULES, HOW TO CREATE A SAFER CONTAINER TOGETHER:
→ Consent is key (Talk, talk, talk! Especially the first time(s) you play with someone. Build that castle of consent together 🏦🌈❤️)
→ Stick to partner agreements
→ Follow safer s'ex guidelines, unless specifically agreed otherwise
→ Use condoms and discuss usage of foil
→ Always wash hands/genitals/s'ex toys before you start, in between changing partners, and afterwards
→ Respect your own YES's and NO's, and those of others.
→ Test regularly for STI’s
→ Respect the introvert corner
→ Confidentiality
HOUSERULES, HOW TO TAKE CARE OF THE SPACE:
→ Naked body parts on towels
→ Bare feet & socks only (no shoes)
→ Be mindful with lube & oil (use towels to prevent it touching the floor or furniture)
→ Clean up after yourself (both regarding s'exy stuff and food/drinks;)
→ No drugs/alcohol (we stay sober and high on life) ;)
→ No smoking inside (also no vaping)

ABOUT THE LOCATION
Distelweg 78, 1031 HH Amsterdam, an antikraak venue at the former office of VitalSelect. Free parking in front of the venue, 1,40 per hour if the parking lot is full.
Busstop Distelweg is around the corner.

ABOUT THE TICKETS
We do not do gendered tickets. This is a space to play and practice, or just to “be”, regardless of your gender identity. Create your own experience with the lovely bodies and beings that are there.
The Conscious S’expositive Play-Space is only open to those who have already been to one of our events, to ensure participants are familiar with our community culture.