THE HOUSE OF EROS - A Somatic Intimacy Club

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Welcome to The House of Eros - a somatic intimacy club in Ghent where erotic nightlife, conscious play and beautifully held spaces meet.

Set in a private villa, this is not a party you have been to before. It is a curated, beautiful playground for the curious, the open-minded and the pleasure-seeking who want more than rushed encounters or disconnected club nights.

Here, kink and sensuality melt into presence, consent and raw emotional intelligence.
The House of Eros is where conscious presence meets unapologetic pleasure.

What It Is
++Not a swinger party. (No expectations, pressure or flat dynamics).
++Not a tantric ritual. (No rigid structures, dogmas or forced exercises).
++Not a standard club night. (No rushed encounters or disconnected sexuality).
++A curated erotic nightlife experience held through consent, beauty and presence.

How the Night Flows
#Arrival (19:45 – 20:15): The villa gates open. You step inside, leave your phone in the locker and leave the noise of the outside world behind. Doors close at 20:15 sharp. No late entry is permitted.
#Opening (20:30): We land. A guided collective grounding to drop from your head into your body, set the agreements and align the energy of the room.
#Curated Spaces - The First Half: The villa opens into a landscape of designed experiences - we call them spheres. Across different spaces, you wander through intimate, playful and provocative containers. The evening is split into Round 1 and Round 2. Each space is held by expert-bodyworkers, facilitators and teachers who keep the container safe, exciting and clean. You are free to move, dive in, watch or simply breathe it in.
#Collective Breath: A short transition that gently bridges guided structure into complete autonomy.
#Free Flow - The Second Half: Structure melts. The villa transforms into a pulsating playground of sound, movement and raw erotic electricity. The techno and house dancefloor comes alive, the bar flows and the spaces open up. This is a container of absolute allowance. No heavy guidelines, no forced interactions. Just an invitation to dance, flirt, play, explore kink and follow your desires with awareness and respect.
#Closing (02:00): We gather to close the container and transition back into the night.

----Our Curated Spaces: The Three Spheres of Eros----
No edition is ever repeated!

For every gathering, the three spheres are completely reimagined with new topics, new atmospheres and new expert facilitators. Each space offers a distinct portal into erotic embodiment, intimacy, play and transformation - creating a fresh journey every single time. Guided by our expert facilitators to wake up your body, stretch your erotic borders and prime your nervous system for the rest of the night.

Sphere 1: Embodied Connection, Flirtation & Touch
Facilitator: TBA
Details: TBA

Sphere 2: Soft Kink & Power-Play Exploration
Facilitator: Sanne Bostyn is an intimacy coach and erotic bodyworker who translates a decade of hands-on experience into practical guidance for embodying presence, polarity and connection. He helps men build confidence and develop a grounded reverence for the feminine. https://www.instagram.com/sannebostyn/
Details: The Playground of Polarity
Where does your desire live when you lead - and when you surrender? In this playground, Sanne invites you to explore the electric tension between control and letting go. In a completely safe and conscious space, you will play with the subtle dynamics of polarity. Experiment with boundaries, practice expressing your desires and learn to speak your limits with absolute clarity. The focus is entirely on presence, curiosity and mutual awareness. There is no pressure to perform. Step into the container, test your edges and discover new patterns of connection that might just change the way you interact outside the villa. All levels of experience are welcome.

Sphere 3: Connection & Movement
Facilitator: Lula Fortune is a pole dancer, sensual movement guide and striptease artist who uses movement to unlock confidence and embodied pleasure. Based between the Netherlands and Belgium, she creates empowering spaces to explore your unique sensual energy. https://www.instagram.com/lula_fortune_/
Details: Sensual Freestyle: The Art of Being Seen
How does it feel to be fully seen in your pleasure? In this workshop, you will reconnect with the raw language of your body through playful freestyle movement. No choreography, no pressure and no rules. We will play with the chemistry of eye contact, the dance of seeing and being seen and the natural rhythm of connection. Here, confidence softens into pure presence as you explore your sensual energy alongside others. Come ready to feel, move and trust whatever naturally wants to express itself. Absolutely no dance experience is needed.


Safety, Space Holding & Consent
++The Angel Team: Throughout the night, a team of Angels will be present and visible. Their role is to support consent culture, offer grounding, help de-escalate unclear situations and hold a safe, respectful and welcoming container.
++Consent Culture: A maybe is a no. Only a clear, enthusiastic "yes" is a yes.
Boundary Management: We are highly experienced space holders. If someone crosses a line, we step in immediately, have a real conversation and make the right call to protect the space.
++Discretion & Privacy: Strictly no photography or filming. Phones are not permitted in active spaces (see Practical Notes).
++Safe-Sex Supplies: Condoms, dental dams, lube and sanitizing supplies are provided in all intimate areas.

Who This Night Is For
This night is for you if you:
--Feel drawn to erotic exploration, kink and play.
--Value consent, presence and emotional awareness.
--Enjoy sex-positive nightlife culture.
--Long for more depth, beauty and intention in erotic spaces.
--Want to experience something different, curated and alive.
No prior experience is required - only openness, respect and responsibility for your own boundaries and desires.

Inclusivity & Polarities
We welcome people of all genders and identities. In some of our formats, we work with masculine and feminine polarities as energetic qualities - not biological categories. These exist in everyone. You are welcome exactly as you are.
We recognize that gender is a spectrum. If you are unsure which ticket fits your journey best, reach out to us - we are happy to find the right spot for you.

Dress Code - Self-Expression in Style
At The House of Eros, your outfit is part of the experience. We invite you to dress elegantly, sensually, gracefully and daringly - in a way that highlights what you want to express and embody.

This is not a casual night out. No short trousers, no everyday casual wear, no flip-flops and no "towel party" vibes.

Think:
*Seductive but clean
*Daring but stylish
*Refined but ready to play
Your body is your canvas. Treat it like art. Whether you arrive mysterious, playful, provocative, dark, radiant or refined - this night is about self-expression through style, not conformity.

Here is some inspiration: https://pin.it/E72XbZxXM

Practical Notes
++Time: Doors open at 19:45. Doors close at 20:15. Official start at 20:30. Event concludes at 02:00. No late entry is permitted once doors close.
++Location & Parking: A beautiful, private villa in Ghent. Plenty of on-site parking is available.
++All-Inclusive: Bar with high-quality drinks and finger food is fully included.
++Phones: We don't collect your phones, but active phone use is strictly prohibited. You must leave your phone in your locker (Schrank) throughout the night.
++Smoking: Strictly non-smoking event.

Couple Tickets & Agreement:
Couple tickets are intended for one man and one woman arriving together. This helps us maintain the polarity and balance we are intentionally curating for this edition.


FAQ
Can sexual interaction happen?
Yes, absolutely. The House of Eros is centered on allowance. We do not enforce complex, heavy rules; instead, we provide a safe container where you are permitted to explore. Within this safe container of allowance, guests naturally start to interact, play and connect when and how they choose.

Is nudity expected, optional or common?
Everything at The House of Eros is optional and a callback to your own responsibility. Nothing is expected of you and the ultimate question is always: Who do you want to be in this space tonight?

Are people allowed to only observe?
Yes, of course. This is a real party. Many people come simply to meet up, connect, make new friends, new lovers or new sex partners. Observation is a perfectly valid and respected way to participate.

Can singles come?
Yes, absolutely. We offer single tickets for both men and women to ensure a balanced, high-vibe group.

Are couples expected to play with others?
Totally not. There are no expectations of any kind. You should do exactly what you feel. We create a beautiful, rich environment that invites people to play, interact, entertain others, entertain themselves or just have a good time together.

Is this LGBTQ+ inclusive?
Yes, we are totally inclusive of all genders and identities. We work with energetic polarities rather than biological categories and everyone is welcome exactly as they are.

What is the screening or selection process?
It starts right here: this event description acts as our first filter to attract the right minds. Beyond that, we are a community of trusted people, familiar faces and individuals from the best parts of the sex-positive scene. We know how to hold a container and we select and curate by our presence and alignment.

What happens if someone crosses a boundary?
We have a highly experienced and visible Angel Team. If a boundary is crossed, we will interact immediately, speak with the people involved and make the right decision to ensure the safety and harmony of the container.

If you have any questions feel free to enter the official House of Eros - Telegram channel:
https://t.me/+hZgWXpi8u2FkYjhi