Slow Sex Special - Erotic Blueprints Edition

Over dit evenement

𝗔𝗱𝘃𝗮𝗻𝗰𝗲𝗱 𝗦𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗦𝗲𝘅 𝗦𝗽𝗲𝗰𝗶𝗮𝗹: 𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗘𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗕𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗶𝗻𝘁
With Anneke at Kokopelli, Amsterdam
(including Free Flow Practice Space & optional microdosing)

A 5-hour immersive evening for advanced Slow Sex practitioners.
We’ll gather in a trauma-informed space to explore intimacy — with yourself and with another — through meditation, breath, partner practices, and free-flow play.

This edition invites you to 𝗱𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗘𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗕𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗶𝗻𝘁®:
How are you erotically wired?
What are your superpowers, shadows, and hidden gifts?

Learn to speak up for what you want, honour what you need, and feel safe in your body — while celebrating your authentic erotic nature.

Come as you are — alone or with a partner — and let’s slow the world down together.

(𝘙𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘰𝘳 𝘚𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘚𝘦𝘹 𝘗𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦.)

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This Advanced Slow Sex Special is a 5-hour in-person group journey into authentic connection, embodied intimacy, and the art of slowing all the way down.

We’ll gather in a held, trauma-informed space to explore intimacy — not just with another, but deeply with yourself.
Through guided meditation, breathwork, partner practices, and free-flow play, we’ll slow down, feel into the body, and discover what our deepest desires and boundaries truly are.

𝗧𝗵𝗶𝘀 𝗘𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻: 𝗗𝗶𝘀𝗰𝗼𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝗬𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗘𝗿𝗼𝘁𝗶𝗰 𝗕𝗹𝘂𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗶𝗻𝘁

Dive into the fascinating world of your erotic wiring — the unique way your body and energy are designed for pleasure, connection, and expression.

You’ll explore:
- The superpowers and shadows of your Erotic Blueprint®
- How your wiring influences your desires and your self-expression
- How to communicate what you want and honour what you need

Themes we’ll touch include:
- The fear of being “too much” or “too sensitive”
- The longing to feel safe, seen, and desired
- The courage to express your truth
- The invitation to rise in your erotic, sacred power

By understanding your blueprint, you begin to meet yourself more deeply — landing in your essence, authenticity, and delight.

𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁 𝘁𝗼 𝗘𝘅𝗽𝗲𝗰𝘁
With clear structure and gentle guidance from Anneke (supported by a trauma-informed space holder), you’ll be invited into deep, embodied practice.

You’ll learn to:
- Recognise and transform old patterns
- Access your “full-body YES” and “full-body NO”
- Express boundaries compassionately
- Connect from heart to heart
- Use communication and breath as tools of presence
- Explore energy and play beyond goal-oriented sexuality

Although the title says Slow Sex, the focus is truly on SLOW — listening, feeling, and being.


𝗪𝗛𝗔𝗧'𝗦 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗙𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗢𝗙 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗥𝗔𝗖𝗧𝗜𝗖𝗘?
𝗔𝗿𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗮𝗹
Arrive 15 minutes early to settle in — we start and close together.

𝗚𝘂𝗶𝗱𝗲𝗱 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲𝘀
Meditation, breathwork, and partner or solo explorations.
Every exercise is optional — you decide how deep to go.
Underwear remains on at all times.

𝗙𝗿𝗲𝗲 𝗙𝗹𝗼𝘄 𝗣𝗿𝗮𝗰𝘁𝗶𝗰𝗲 𝗦𝗽𝗮𝗰𝗲 (~𝟭 𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗿)
A relaxed, sex-positive space to integrate and play — dance, exchange massage, journal, or enjoy tea and snacks.
Bring something light to share.

𝗖𝗹𝗼𝘀𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝗖𝗶𝗿𝗰𝗹𝗲
We end together in reflection and presence.

𝗪𝗵𝘆 𝗝𝗼𝗶𝗻
- A 5-hour immersive group journey with ~1 hour of free flow
- Held with care, respect, and authenticity
- Phone- and picture-free space
- Come solo or with a partner — everyone welcome
- Optional microdosing for those who feel called
- Language: English

Feel free to bring any playful tools that awaken curiosity — a rope, a feather, a flogger, or simply your breath and openness.

𝘐𝘔𝘗𝘖𝘙𝘛𝘈𝘕𝘛: 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘢𝘥𝘷𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦𝘥 𝘦𝘥𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘰𝘮𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘰𝘴𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰’𝘷𝘦 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘪𝘱𝘢𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘪𝘯 𝘢 𝘙𝘦𝘨𝘶𝘭𝘢𝘳 𝘚𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘚𝘦𝘹 𝘗𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘤𝘪𝘰𝘶𝘴 𝘴𝘦𝘹𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘺.

Even though the title contains the word sex, the focus is on SLOW—just to calm your nerves :). Only by slowing the F down can we truly listen to our most hidden sexual desires and most authentic boundaries—and build a healthy and loving relationship with our body—our sacred temple and portal to immense pleasure, joy & creativity.


𝗔𝗕𝗢𝗨𝗧 𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗦𝗟𝗢𝗪 𝗦𝗘𝗫 𝗠𝗢𝗩𝗘𝗠𝗘𝗡𝗧
The Slow Sex Movement is more than a practice—for us, it’s a lifestyle, an art form, and even a form of activism that deeply connects us to ourselves, each other and nature, thus ending separation. For more info, visit: https://slowsex.me/
More about your facilitator Anneke: https://slowsex.me/anneke/

More about your facilitator Anneke: https://www.slowsex.me/annekevanbokhoven/ & Emma: http://slowsex.me/emma/

Personal Practitioner
You can now book a trained personal practitioner from our team to support you during our practices. This means that throughout the practice, you will have one dedicated, experienced practitioner fully present with you.
More details: https://www.slowsex.me/from-survival-to-connection-assisted-slow-sex-practice/
Costs: 155 euros + the ticket price for the chosen Slow Sex Practice
Send an email to hello@slowsex.me to check availability for your preferred practice.

You will receive more information about microdosing in the welcome email you receive after booking. 𝘛𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢 𝘱𝘥𝘧 𝘢𝘵𝘵𝘢𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘦-𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘭 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘪𝘷𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘏𝘪𝘱𝘴𝘺!

𝗙𝗔𝗤:
- 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙛𝙖𝙘𝙞𝙡𝙞𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙤𝙧𝙨 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙙 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙚𝙙? — Yes! Every Slow Sex facilitator is personally trained by Katjalisa, co-founder of the Slow Sex movement, and participates in a continuous mentorship program. This program focuses on trauma-information, mirroring blind spots, working with disowned parts, and holding each other accountable to serve the collective with integrity and care. To learn more about our values and how we take care, please read about our community care:
https://slowsex.me/community-care/
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙞𝙩 𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙖𝙡𝙡 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧𝙨 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙚𝙭𝙪𝙖𝙡 𝙤𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙩𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣? — YES, absolutely!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙥𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙣𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙙? — Unless stated differently, we have a ‘underwear on’ policy during all events. There won't be any genital penetration happening at any point of the evening.
- 𝘿𝙤𝙚𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙎𝙚𝙭 𝙋𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙞𝙣𝙫𝙤𝙡𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙧𝙖𝙪𝙢𝙖 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠? — Slow Sex is a healing space. Even though our intention is not to actively dive into trauma work, some exercises might trigger past traumatic experiences. We ask you to get in touch with our team beforehand if you are aware of sexual traumas.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙖𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙚? — You can totally come alone. If you come as a couple please discuss beforehand if you are open to share experiences with others and clarify the boundaries within your relationship.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙣𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙢𝙮 𝙥𝙖𝙧𝙩𝙣𝙚𝙧? — Yes.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙙𝙤 𝙚𝙭𝙚𝙧𝙘𝙞𝙨𝙚𝙨 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙢𝙚 𝙜𝙚𝙣𝙙𝙚𝙧? Potentially, we invite you to explore beyond your gender preference and meet each other as beings to connect from heart to heart and go beyond initial preferences.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙄 𝙖𝙢 𝙛𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙨𝙖𝙙 𝙤𝙧 𝙙𝙚𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨𝙚𝙙? — Yes, please come as you are—grumpy, unsocial, totally unsexy, the Slow Sex Practice can help you to reconnect to yourself and shift your energy.
- 𝙄𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙖 𝙙𝙧𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙘𝙤𝙙𝙚? — No, you’re welcome to wear sexy clothes or show up in your pajamas. Most importantly, you should feel comfortable.
- 𝙎𝙝𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝙄 𝙨𝙝𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙚? — Showering beforehand is appreciated. If you sweat a lot, bring a small towel. Please, avoid strong perfumes or deodorants.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙢𝙚𝙚𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙤𝙣𝙚 𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬 𝙎𝙚𝙭? — The Slow Sex Practice isn’t a ‘pick up’ place.
It's about connecting with an open heart without specific intentions or goals. However, if you had a special moment with someone and want to meet up or just express gratitude—go ahead!
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧𝙚 𝙗𝙚 𝙖𝙣𝙮 𝙥𝙞𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙧𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙧 𝙫𝙞𝙙𝙚𝙤𝙨 𝙩𝙖𝙠𝙚𝙣? — No, the Slow Sex Practice is a phone-and picture-free space.
- 𝙒𝙞𝙡𝙡 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙞𝙫𝙚 (𝙢𝙤𝙧𝙚) 𝙞𝙣𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙖𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙭𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙞𝙚𝙣𝙘𝙚? — Yes, you'll receive a welcome email with event details after your registration from Hipsy with a pdf included, and a follow-up email with care instructions afterward. Your email address will be public in the aftercare email, unless you wish to to stay incognito. Please tell us.
- 𝙄 𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙬𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙩𝙤 𝙟𝙤𝙞𝙣, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙣𝙘𝙞𝙖𝙡 𝙙𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙞𝙘𝙪𝙡𝙩𝙞𝙚𝙨, 𝙘𝙖𝙣 𝙬𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙠 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙤𝙪𝙩? — Yes, we’re open to see how we can support each other.
- 𝘾𝙖𝙣 𝙄 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙧? — No, sorry, latecomers cannot join unless they have arranged it with the facilitator in advance and the group is informed.
- 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙡𝙖𝙣𝙜𝙪𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙤𝙛 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙣𝙞𝙣𝙜? — All our events are hosted in English, and fluent English is a prerequisite for participation.

𝙒𝙚’𝙧𝙚 𝙡𝙤𝙤𝙠𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙬𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙧𝙖𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙘𝙚 𝙬𝙞𝙩𝙝 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙝𝙖𝙧𝙚 𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙬𝙖𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙡𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙡𝙤𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙜, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙘𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜. 💕