THE HOUSE OF EROS - A Somatic Intimacy Club

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THE HOUSE OF EROS
A Somatic Intimacy Club

Welcome to The House of Eros, an immersive erotic night where desire meets design — and where Ghent’s vibrant, sex-positive nightlife finds a new, consciously held expression.

Set in a beautiful villa, this is not just a party.
It is a carefully curated erotic playground for curious, open-minded and pleasure-loving humans who want more than rushed encounters or disconnected sexuality.

Here, kink, play, sensuality and nightlife culture merge with presence, consent and emotional intelligence.

Not a swinger party.
Not a tantric ritual.
Not a standard club night.

The House of Eros is where conscious presence meets unapologetic pleasure.


What awaits you
This night unfolds in two distinct yet seamlessly flowing chapters:

✦ Curated Experiences — The First Half

As dusk falls, the villa opens into a landscape of designed erotic and embodied experiences.

Across multiple curated rooms, you are invited to explore intimate, playful and provocative spaces - each with its own atmosphere, intention and rhythm.

You may find yourself in:
*an embodied flirtation or connection experiment
*a soft kink or power-play exploration
*a space devoted to touch, presence and somatic awareness
*or an erotic play laboratory where curiosity leads the way
*...

Each room is consciously held by experienced co-hosts - bodyworkers, facilitators and known faces from the field - who guide the container, support consent and create spaces where exploration feels safe, exciting and deeply considered.

You are free to wander, choose, pause, dive in - or simply observe.

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Our Curated Spaces: The Three Spheres of Eros
To hold this deep and playful container, we have designed three distinct spheres of experience. Instead of confined rooms, these are expansive, active laboratories guided by our expert facilitators to upgrade your somatic capacity, expand your erotic bandwidth and prime your nervous system for the rest of the night.

In the Sphere of Connect & Play, hosted by Daphné Sarpyener, you will experience the ultimate slow-burn foreplay through conscious touch and authentic relating. This space invites you to drop your daily masks, teaching you how to feel profoundly more by doing less. By grounding your nervous system here, you establish a deep anchor of trust (and safety with your partner), making it beautifully safe to navigate the open flow of the party later. You take home the ability to shed performance anxiety, communicate your truest desires and cultivate an emotional intimacy that makes everyday sex deeply expansive and fulfilling.

The Playground of Polarity, hosted by Sanne Bostyn, is an active laboratory where you will explore the electric friction between leading and total surrender. Here, you are safely invited to step out of your comfort zone, stretch your erotic bandwidth and experience the intense arousal that arises from clear boundaries. This sphere sparks a bold, playful energy, giving you the confidence to be gloriously explicit about your desires during the rest of the night.

In the Sphere of Alchemy, hosted by Fieke (Soulspot), you will dive into Intimacy Kung-Fu to unlock your body's wild, primal wisdom. This practice teaches you how to drop your mental armor and transmute inner tension into raw, sustained erotic life force, ensuring you step onto the main floor deeply grounded and fiercely turned on. Ultimately, you gain robust somatic tools to regulate your nervous system, allowing you to hold infinitely more pleasure and navigate intense emotional states in your daily life with true resilience.


✦ Free Flow — The Second Half

As the night deepens, structure melts into freedom.
The villa transforms into a pulsating playground of sound, movement and unfolding erotic energy.

## A dancefloor with techno & house music comes alive.
## A bar with drinks invites you to linger, connect and refuel.
## open Spaces.
## Encounters intensify.

Here, you are invited to let go into the rhythm of the night - to dance, flirt, play, explore kink, connect, and follow your desires with awareness and respect.

This is where Ghent’s night- and sex-positive scene meets in celebration:
bold, elegant, curious, alive.


The Spirit of The House
The House of Eros was born from a longing to bridge a gap:

Between sexual spaces that feel flat or rushed and conscious spaces that avoid the erotic.

This is a night for those who want both:
- erotic aliveness and emotional intelligence
- freedom and consent
- depth and pleasure
- wildness and care

We celebrate:
+ curiosity over performance
+ presence over encouragement
+ exploration over expectation

##This is a space for grown-ups who love pleasure - and who know that true eroticism thrives where safety, respect and beauty meet.##

House of Eros is about deep connection, shared responsibility and bringing together different kind of interests & people from different areas - to learn from each other... to create a high-vibe .. to
expand your erotic bandwidth.
A safe and energetically balanced container - One House - One Vibe - Pure Connection.


The Co-Hosts

Daphné Sarpyener is an facilitator, and therapist devoted to awakening authenticity and aliveness, working at the edge of what is known.
She started her research on intimacy around the time of covid, looking for a different way of being together. On her path, she discovered authentic relating - a space to create heart to heart connections, away from daily masks, in touch with our true self. Then came, feelings work and shadow work -working on the courage that’s needed to make those extra steps and maintain them on a daily basis.
She’s been an intimacy activist for the past 8 years - experimenting with sex positive spaces, relational anarchy, conscious touch and consent games, rage club and fear club and a wide set of communication tools. Bringing these into her workshops and one on one coaching.
Authenticity isn’t something you learn - it’s something you live.
https://www.instagram.com/daphnesarpyener_coaching/

Sanne Bostyn is an intimacy coach for men, and an erotic bodyworker for women. Through over a decade of direct, hands-on experience, he has developed a rare understanding of how women truly experience desire, arousal, and connection.
He translates that experience into practical guidance for men, teaching them how to embody presence, create polarity, and lead intimacy in a way that evokes genuine attraction.
His work bridges the gap between theory and lived experience, shaped by years of training in bodywork, intimacy, and conscious sexuality.
He helps men reclaim sexual sovereignty and develop a grounded reverence for the feminine.
https://www.instagram.com/sannebostyn/

Fieke - Soulspot
Fieke Vanhauwaert is an embodied facilitator and founder of Soulspot. She creates spaces where women come back into their bodies, meet their truth and reconnect with the aliveness they’ve learned to suppress. Her work is not about fixing, but about remembering ánd staying with what is real, even when it’s uncomfortable, unfamiliar, or alive. Through body awareness, opening for innate magic, and direct experience, she guides women out of overthinking and control, and back into something more instinctive, honest, and awake. Her work doesn’t give you answers. It wakes something up. And once you feel it, you can’t go back to sleep.
https://www.instagram.com/fieke_soulspot/


Angels, Safety & Space Holding

Throughout the night, a team of Angels will be present and visible.
Their role is subtle yet essential:
>supporting consent culture
>offering orientation and grounding
>being emotionally available when needed
>de-escalating unclear situations
>and helping to hold a safe, respectful and welcoming container for everyone

This allows the space to feel both free and held.


Who this night is for
This night is for you if you:
# feel drawn to erotic exploration, kink and play
# value consent, presence and emotional awareness
# enjoy sex-positive nightlife culture
# long for more depth, beauty and intention in erotic spaces
# want to experience something different, curated and alive

No prior experience is required - only openness, respect and responsibility for your own boundaries and desires.

🌈 Inclusivity & Polarities
We welcome people of all genders and identities.
In some of our formats we work with masculine and feminine polarities as energetic qualities - not biological categories. These exist in everyone.
You are welcome exactly as you are.

We recognize that gender is a spectrum. If you are unsure which ticket fits your journey best, reach out to us - we are happy to find the right spot for you.


Dress Code – Self-Expression in Style
At The House of Eros, your outfit is part of the experience.

We invite you to dress elegant, sensual, graceful and attractive — in a way that highlights what you want to express and embody.
This is not a casual night out.
No short trousers, no everyday casual wear, no flip-flops, and no “towel party” vibes.

Instead, think:
--seductive without being sloppy
--daring without being careless
--stylish without being stiff

Your body is your canvas. Treat it like art.

Whether you arrive mysterious, playful, provocative, dark, radiant or refined - this night is about self-expression through style, not conformity.

Dress to celebrate your desire, your presence, your uniqueness.
Here are some inspirations:
https://pin.it/E72XbZxXM

Practical Notes
Sex-positive, kink-friendly and consent-based
Clear agreements around respect, boundaries and discretion
No photography or filming
Bar with drinks & fingerfood all inclusive
Techno & house music
Angels and space holders present throughout the night


Enter The House
The House of Eros invites you to step into a night where desire is not rushed, pleasure is not flattened and eroticism is treated as both art and play.

Welcome to a space where you don’t have to choose between depth and desire.