SPECIAL: Red Play Party & Rough Sex for Nice Folks - w. Reid Mihalko

Over dit evenement

➡️ EVENT SOLD OUT? QUESTIONS ABOUT PRACTICALITIES? THE FAQ TELLS YOU WHAT TO DO AND WHERE TO GO: www.exploringdeeper.com/faq.

This is a special edition of the Red Play Party you know from Wilrieke Sophia - this time with famous guest facilitator Reid Mihalko (USA). This is a Temple Night, or the Red Play Party as created by Exploring Deeper: a day of sensual, luscious exploration in an all-embracing environment of like-minded people, with an edutaining class on rough sex in the afternoon.

❗Mind that the morning is mainly demos and lecture style, which may create a steep transition towards the freeflow in the afternoon. This specific red play party is not recommended as a first red play party to go to!

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Hosting: Wilrieke Sophia
Facilitation Rough Sex for Nice folks (before lunch): Reid Mihalko
Style: lecture, demos

Facilitation Play Party (after lunch): Wilrieke Sophia
Style: ice breaker games, freeflow

TL:DR
➤ We recommend at least some experience in sex-positive spaces. You should be comfortable (though absolutely not obliged to participate in - on the contrary) with nudity and explicit action in the space. Experience with workshops related to tantra, kink, touch, cuddles, etc will do (email/pm Wilrieke if you are not sure whether this is for you now).
➤ Be aware that these spaces zoom in on your ease & challenges. You need to be comfortable with that.
➤ We will send you an email with practical information a few days before the event. Make sure to sign up with your most-used email address (when you have unsubscribed from our newsletter, our emails can’t reach you).

WHAT THE DAY LOOKS LIKE
The doors open half an hour before the starting time. Make sure to be on time! Once we have started we cannot let latecomers in!

ABOUT THE MORNING WORKSHOP: ROUGH SEX FOR NICE FOLKS
When you or a lover likes it… Rough.

If you’re a lover, not a fighter, but you or your lover like it a little rough, let sex and relationship educator (and double black belt, former fight choreographer for indie films), Reid Mihalko of ReidAboutSex.com, show you how you can safely be a badass in bed.

From wrestling to rough sex to advanced ergonomic techniques, join us for this humorous and informative workshop (with live demos!) on how to unleash your inner Bruce Lee of the bedroom.

In this edutaining class for all genders, we’ll cover:
- Rough sex for nice guys, gals, and folks of all genders and orientations!
- The difference between “thuddy” and “stingy,” and why you should care…
- The best sex positions, proper body positioning, and ergonomics for harder, stronger, longer sex
- Why and how wrestling can be a turn-on
- Hair-pulling 101
- Spanking basics made easy
- How to bite (and how not to!)
- How to move your partner’s body around the bed with more ease
And much more!

No matter your sexual/kinky experience level, orientation, or relationship status, this class is going to be educational, fun, and give you some delicious bedroom kung-fu. Sit and watch as Reid demonstrates how easy it is to be a black belt at sex! We’ll even have plenty of room for your questions! Join us! Bring friends! Bring a notebook!

ABOUT THE PLAY PARTY
After lunch, there's a sex and play party etiquette talk. There's space for you to ask your questions. We slowly start the program with dancing and a few exercises. This transitions into a free flow where you design your own experience. The team is available for support and inspiration - or a chat at the bar.

All genders, bodies, and orientations are welcome. This day has no expectations or requirements. It is a space to be expressed and celebrated, to explore! You are welcome with all that you bring and who you are - at this moment.

This event is NOT for you if:
. you are not willing to accept another person’s ‘no’
. this is an event for people with at least some experience in s-positive spaces, and/or workshops on topics like tantra, kink, BDSM, cuddling, or other forms of intimacy. You should be comfortable (though absolutely not obliged to participate in - on the contrary) with unclothed people and explicit action in the space. (When in doubt, send Wilrieke a message to check in whether this is for you).
. we actively stand for inclusion. This means that in the event no racism, discrimination, misogyny, ableism, or shaming of bodies, sexualities, gender etc are tolerated. If this is something you cannot commit to, this is not your community.
. you are looking for easy sex. You won’t find it here.

This is a RED event.

FOR WHO IS THIS EVENT?
This event welcomes folks from all walks of life. We are LGBTQIIA+ informed (Wilrieke and most of their team identify as such), slut-friendly, trauma-informed, and non-monogamy informed. White folks are overrepresented in our team and life experiences are colored through that lens. We do come from different social backgrounds and have different life experiences when it comes to health, wealth, neurodiversity, gender, sexual orientation, etc.
We welcome people with specific needs as much as able-bodied folks. Feel free to reach out if you have specific needs that you wish to share with us.

You can attend with 1 or 2 partners, or come solo and meet a practice partner there. We’ll support that process, but we don’t promise you’ll be paired up. Watching or practicing solo is always welcome. Consent and negotiation are required at every step. Your body, your pace, your choice.

"Thank you so much for the class, Reid! I tried out my new knowledge out on my partner and WOW. Just wow. He loved it. Then it was my turn and OHMAIGAD WOW. Thaaaaank you!”
~MishPen, Oakland CA

👋 ABOUT REID MIHALKO (USA)
Reid Mihalko (he/him) of ReidAboutSex.com is an internationally known sex and relationship educator helping adults become the change they want to see in the bedroom by creating more self-esteem, self-confidence, and greater health and accountability in their relationships and sex lives. Reid uses an inspiring mixture of humor, personal stories, keen insight, and comprehensive sexual health information to change the lives of his audiences and clients.

In early 2018, some very brave people came forward during #MeToo sharing harms that Reid had caused them. Reid stepped down from teaching and initiated a restorative justice-based accountability process to address his misconduct and make amends if and where possible. The formal, year-long process along with Reid’s apology and resources were shared publicly and can be found at TinyURL.com/reidaccountability. Going forward, Reid’s projects and appearances will include pointing people towards resources and experts on restorative and transformative justice-based accountability processes.

Reid’s workshops and college lectures have been attended by over 60,000 people from all over the globe. His Youtube videos have been viewed over 5 million times. He has appeared in media such as Oprah's Our America With Lisa Ling on OWN, NETFLIX, Montel, Dr. Phil's The Doctors on CBS, Bravo's Miss Advised, Fox News, in Newsweek, Seventeen, GQ, The Washington Post, and in thirteen countries and at least seven languages.
Reid is also founder of Sex Geek Summer Camp, Sex Geek Conservatory, and Sex Geek School for Gifted Sex Geeks, which help sex educators learn valuable business skills that allow them to reach more people with greater ease, transform more lives, and make a better living as sexperts.

Instagram: https://instagram/ReidAboutSex
TikTok: https://tiktok.com/@ReidAboutSex
Facebook: https://facebook.com/ReidAboutSex
YouTube: https://youtube.com/ReidAboutSex

👋 ABOUT WILRIEKE SOPHIA
Wilrieke Sophia (they/them) is a sex & intimacy educator, (TEDx) speaker, advisor & coach for creative makers and scientists, author, and founder of Exploring Deeper and Cuddle Workshops International.

The main focus of their work is empowerment through self-knowledge and understanding, radical self-inclusion, the embodied experiencing of boundaries and desires, and an extensive practice of consent – all based on a foundation of trauma awareness and neuroscience, embedded in experiential spaces based on interpersonal connective practices. They collaborate with artists and scientists, and are a supervisor and mentor.

With their project Red Flags in Workshops, Wilrieke creates free materials on e.g. accountability, abuse, and power dynamics in the intimacy and wellness communities.

www.exploringdeeper.com
www.redflagsinworkshops.com

SOME PRACTICAL INFORMATION
Two weeks before the event, you will receive an email with detailed information for the day, including the address and what to bring. Make sure you sign up with the email address that you use. Check your spam filter if you did not receive an email seven days before the event (if you have unsubscribed from our newsletter, these emails cannot reach you!).

ACCESSIBILITY
This workshop space is called Awananda. The elevators in this building are out of order - the owner won’t fix this to our regret. There are stairs to enter the building. On the ground floor is an all-access bathroom. The workshop is on the first floor. There are two stairs to get there. There are several bathrooms on the first floor (no all-access bathrooms), and a kitchen with a fridge and a microwave. There are mattresses in the workshop space. There is no shower.

➡️ EVENT SOLD OUT? QUESTIONS ABOUT PRACTICALITIES? THE FAQ TELLS YOU WHAT TO DO AND WHERE TO GO: www.exploringdeeper.com/faq.

Our Terms and Conditions apply: http://www.exploringdeeper.com/terms-and-conditions/.